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Are you earning 50% less than you should do ?

Did you know that people who stay in  the same job for more than two years earn on average 50% less over their lifetime than people who move jobs? Research...

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We can not date/eat/drink/work/hobby/study [fill in the blanks…] our way out of our own inner hell

What my own 17+ years of academic studies, 13 years inner work (including psychotherapeutic) journey, 20+ years meditation, 20+ years mentoring and coaching others in some capacity and 6+ years...

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Happy Father’s and Immigrant Fathers’ Day

To All fathers, and Immigrant fathers To all fathers and immigrant fathers today, I wish you a happy Father’s Day. My father was an immigrant dad and a “ guest...

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Applying Carl Jung’s concept of “Enantiodromia” to reach balance 

Enantiodromia can be defined as “running counter to” and is a principle in Jungian analytical psychology developed by Carl Jung (Jung & Shamdasani, 2009). Jung observed that in life things...

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Meet Your ‘Inner Addict’ and free them

What is addiction? We commonly think of addiction as having a dependency on substances such as cigarettes, alcohol, drugs or  processes such as gaming, work, shopping, sex. But addiction is...

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STAYING

I was reflecting on my twelve year journey from starting my training with Dr Margaret Paul with InnerBonding© in 2012, to my Master in Psychology in 2013 to my Doctorate in...

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Non doing (Wu Wei)

Very happy New Year 2025. I was asked by a client struggling with addictive and obsessive compulsive thoughts towards a significant other following a relationship breakdown, if I might recommend...

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Stepping Out of Our Comfort Zone and SAYING YES to LIFE

For a long time, there was a way in which my fears kept me in my comfort zone in very important dimensions of my life unbeknownst to me. I seemed...

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Rising and Rebuilding Ourselves from Our Ashes

!! Trigger warning. What follows discusses violent acts perpetrated and reported in the news!! You might have heard of the horrific case of Gisele Pelicot/the Mazan rapes in France? The...

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